{"id":647,"date":"2013-02-15T20:03:51","date_gmt":"2013-02-16T04:03:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/?p=647"},"modified":"2013-02-15T20:05:38","modified_gmt":"2013-02-16T04:05:38","slug":"do-we-want-drama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/?p=647","title":{"rendered":"Do we want drama?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"top\" \/>I got to thinking about drama. Do we secretly want drama in our lives\u2019? Do we seek it out by picking fights with those we love? And why must we do this? I have learned that people will disappoint me. People can be unrealistic and flighty and unreliable. I have learned that people will give up on things that I\u2019ll never fully understand. And this is when the fighting ensues. But before we can dismiss those people from our lives, we must be able to distinguish the difference between the fight and the drama. Do we fight because we want the drama? Or do we fight because we can\u2019t be the one who\u2019s wrong? We can\u2019t ever understand others\u2019 motives. But we can understand acceptance. And with that, the drama will subside.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I got to thinking about drama. Do we secretly want drama in our lives\u2019? Do we seek it out by picking fights with those we love? And why must we do this? I have learned that people will disappoint me. &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/?p=647\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":582,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/647"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=647"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/647\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":650,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/647\/revisions\/650"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/582"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=647"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=647"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=647"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}