{"id":630,"date":"2013-01-24T14:32:54","date_gmt":"2013-01-24T22:32:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/?p=630"},"modified":"2013-01-24T14:32:54","modified_gmt":"2013-01-24T22:32:54","slug":"never-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/?p=630","title":{"rendered":"Never change"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"top\" \/>I got to thinking about changing ourselves. Sometimes we feel that we must change ourselves to fit in. Sometimes we feel that we won\u2019t be able to sustain a friendship or a relationship without being someone else. But we mustn\u2019t feel that way. Being someone else is boring. We\u2019re never more alive than when we are ourselves. We\u2019ll never discover exactly who we are being someone else. And that, of course, would be quite a shame; finding out who we are is the most imperative, significant, and magical thing we can do. I\u2019m never changing who I am. And you shouldn\u2019t either.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I got to thinking about changing ourselves. Sometimes we feel that we must change ourselves to fit in. Sometimes we feel that we won\u2019t be able to sustain a friendship or a relationship without being someone else. But we mustn\u2019t &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/?p=630\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":582,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/630"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=630"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/630\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":631,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/630\/revisions\/631"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/582"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=630"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=630"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/carolineadejong.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=630"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}